Choosing an engagement ring is a big decision. Whether you’re about to ask the love of your life the biggest question of all or you and your partner are making this decision together, there are several ways to approach picking the perfect ring.
If you’re looking for inspiration to help whittle down your options, here are some top tips.
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Understand the 4Cs
If you’re planning on going with a classic diamond engagement ring, it’s important to be aware that each diamond is unique. Even if two appear similar, they won’t be a perfect match.
To check the quality of a diamond, there are the 4Cs. This is the universal standard for assessing the quality of a diamond and they are:
- Cut – This is how the diamond is fashioned into a shape. There are different types of cut, such as oval, princess, pear and emerald.
- Colour – Diamonds come in many colours. Colourless diamonds are rare, making them the most expensive.
- Clarity – This is an assessment of how many internal and external characteristics the diamond has.
- Carat – This is the weight of the diamond.
Consider their style
Choosing an engagement ring should always center on the wearer. By focusing on who they are, this can make it easier to decide on the best style for them. Fortunately, engagement rings come in a range of designs, so you’re sure to find the right fit for them.
If you’re choosing this ring on your own, take a look at the type of jewelry they already wear. Are they a minimalist or do they love bold designs? Are there any particular metals that they wear a lot?
Choose the right setting for them too. There are classic solitaires right through to intricate halo and pavé settings. Each option has a distinct appeal. Considering their lifestyle is important here, as if, for instance, they’re very active, low-set or bezel settings might be preferable for durability.
Getting the size right
Many jewelers will resize for free or for a nominal fee. It’s important that you check how this works before you buy because you could find you have to go back and get the ring resized.
To help avoid this scenario, if possible, try to get as close as you can to their ring size. One way to do this is to borrow a ring they wear on their ring finger or the equivalent on their right hand to get an accurate measurement. Alternatively, you could ask friends or family for advice as they might be able to get that information for you.
Set a realistic budget
Tradition dictates we must save three-months’ salary for a ring, but in reality, your budget should reflect what your financial situation is like right now. You don’t have to spend an extortionate amount of money to have the perfect engagement ring. Take the time to work out what you want to spend and use that as your guide when selecting the perfect ring.
Enjoy this time. Ring shopping is a wonderful, exciting experience that signifies the next chapter in your love story.
